Support- order the abuser to pay you temporary child support or continue to make mortgage payments on a home owned by both of you.No contact- to prohibit all contact, whether by telephone, text messages, notes, mail, fax, email, through a third person, or delivery of flowers or gifts.Stay away- the majority of states’ orders can instruct the abuser to stay away from you, your home, your workplace, or your school.Cease abuse- order the abuser to stop hurting or threatening you.While there are differences from state to state, all protective order statutes allow the judge to order one or more of the following provisions: what protection or relief a person can get from such an order and.In general, domestic violence restraining order laws establish: